A woman is like a garden. Her splendor is laid out somewhere on your path as a treasure of sensual delight and beauty. She might not be aware of it but she is waiting for you to discover and reveal her nature. She is waiting for your presence in her garden. You must be worthy to enter. She must feel that you are worthy. She is the magnificent garden, you are the presence - this must be a worthy encounter.
Your presence lifts her and rouses. She already has everything, is full of energy but it is at rest, strangely. It is so until she finds a presence around which and for the sake of which to spin her splendor.
When you see a woman you desire feel mentally your penis, lower your eyes but lift your chest filling your heart with love. Smile internally toward yourself and make that smile radiate outwardly. This is the love you offer and it springs from the focal point of the heart where your sex and mind converge to form the gift of your deep presence.
Show her that you are fully aware of her treasure but do not point to it directly. Do not look at her lustfully, do not smack your lips, do not talk about taking her - but make her feel that you desire her and are capable and free to unleash that desire. Respect yourself while you approach her - and love yourself. That means accept yourself and be utterly and entirely comfortable with yourself. Then respect her as a treasure you found showing her that she merits your attention. This will make way for her to open her love to you. This will make her respect you and make her want to merit your attention. It will make her want to reveal her splendor in the embrace of your presence.
Do not be needy. Do not beg for her company or sex. This shows that your presence is of low caliber. Do not smile solicitously. Do not try hard to be nice. Demonstrate calmly that your interest demands her urgent attention.
Do not talk much - because it weakens your presence. Do not stare at her or her appealing body. Do not touch or grab her body. Be fully, comfortably and lovingly with yourself and project the power of your presence to her. Love your masculine self to the point of feeling sexual and project that feeling to her. This is what she desires to feel and she will respond. Perhaps you will resonate with her profoundly.
In a social environment be aware of what is going on around you - for her sake. So that you may navigate your interaction with her around others. Do not engage in interactions with others when you have an opportunity to give your attention to her.
Be true to yourself. Do not do what you hate to do. Do not lie to yourself. Do not pretend that you are interested in a woman when you are really not very. Do not spend your time and energy with this woman. You will find another one.
Sometimes the woman who attracts you will seem to be fully the treasure you desire but something she does or is keeps irritating you. Then you will have to deeply contemplate the question if this is a woman you want to pursue or leave alone. Do not be afraid to desist from a pursuit in which you cannot be fully present.
Conversely, sometimes a woman's splendor seems to be hidden and hard to access behind layers of social defenses that she had erected to guard herself from masculine approach. You feel the treasure buried behind, desire it and want to melt the defenses with the power of your presence. You must then contemplate whether the hidden treasure is worthy and you have enough strength to uncover, take and hold it. If not, you ought to, however regretfully, desist.
Surreal Tee © 2011