Be always open. You are the garden, you have it all - delight, beauty and sex. You are the fountain of love that is always awaiting a worthy presence onto which to reveal yourself. You deeply love and accept yourself. When a man arrives at your gate be open to his approach. He might be that worthy presence. You will not know until you allow him into your embrace and see how he proceeds with the treasure he has in his hands.
When he is at your gate do not pester him with a mass of questions, do not probe him and his worthiness through tedious mental exercises. Test him but do not annoy him with your testing. Be confident in your intuition which is sufficient to judge his value. Develop this intuition through experience. Decide yourself just how far you will let him in.
Remember that your vagina opens your heart. It is your vulnerability as well as your strength. On a man's approach feel his erect penis penetrating you and feel how he is at peace with his heart and with his mind. Judge thus if the man is right for you - sexually, mentally and emotionally. Can he open his heart to you? Does his mind allow him to fully inhabit your garden? It is your prerogative to allow him further along or push him away.
When you let a man inside your garden let him freely move you - open your heart to him. You are his erection, you are his love. You are the love he is coming to meet with his presence. As your love grows so will his presence. And love and presence will switch places and intermingle - he gains love and you the depth of presence. A crown is being readied in the heavens for both of you.
A man acts in freedom and feels that his free actions are right. Test his integrity all you want, but respect the fact that he has already tested himself thousands of times.
Be true to your emotions and reactions. If a man annoys you or you find his habits or desires displeasing - leave him. Leave him without being jealous that he find another woman who accepts and loves him. There is no lesser woman - do not hate her.
Surreal Tee © 2012